What I like

My primary fantasy is asking for discipline, and then finding out that I've bitten off more than I can chew.

Even more than the spanking itself, I need the feeling of being subject to discipline.  The pain of the spanking itself is secondary, but it's a very vital secondary.  The loss of control is the main part to me, and I don't feel that I can truly lose control if what is happening is something I want.  I do not enjoy being spanked.  I enjoy that I am spanked.